Loosening the Life of Lethargy

Read any motivational book or blog post about accomplishing anything in business or in life and there is probably an underlying assumption that everyone wants to be lively and progressive. Sweet memes are made of this. Is this an unrealistic picture of the people we have become? When there are a gazillion daily temptations toward diversion and recreation we may be seeing a clue that there is a hidden part of us that craves something other than business and busy-ness. Are we basically creatures of laziness looking for an escape? We have evolved our culture into one that looks for the easy way to do things and the tools of innovation are often technological gimmicks that pledge to make our lives easier… and allow us to lapse into comfortable, relaxing, and eternal lethargy.

Are there rules for getting rid of this demon? There probably isn’t a cure for lethargic leanings because it is so personal in nature. For some, when the pendulum swings too far in the other direction we go about everything with such a frenetic energy that it has the same result – accomplishing nothing. The rule for something that has no rule is to apply logic and common sense per the reality of each situation. Some examples are:

  • People Management – The easy way is to lump everybody of a certain age group, gender, race, ethnicity, or sexual orientation into comfortable buckets where thinking is not required. It’s more work to think of individual needs than the stereotypes associated with a group. Taking the time to listen and consider the needs of the individual highlights the better way of escaping from the lazy way out: time management. If we budget our available time to handle important things like listening and hearing it would be easier to deal with distractions that would take us down the lazy path.
  • Hiring Management – The easy way is to consider it a mechanical process that always follows a set of neatly prescribed rules. Recruitment by robotically inclined people will ultimately give way to a process that is totally dehumanized and managed by robots. Nobody is well served by this solution. Realizing that this is a specialized subset of people management is the key to unlocking access to the talent marketplace: relationship management. Influencing people by building relationships instead of processes ultimately makes it happen without the negative impact of conflict generated by do-nothing laziness.
  • Career Management – The easy way is to avoid possible rejection and failure by retreating to the comfort of a keyboard and computer screen for information and application. The eagerness to apply technology to solve an immediate need can result in missing the human aspect of a career which is to forge a personal destiny among other persons. Computers don’t hire people. This is the flip side of hiring management because it is working with others to get results: partnership management. Nobody must do it alone and disregard the totality of the effort makes being lazy look attractive.

Managing the various aspects of a complex life means two things: making choices and assigning priorities. First, we need to decide what is important and then we must set about doing it. Are human beings by nature lazy? The answer to that question is totally irrelevant! Being productive is a choice; so is being lazy.


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The Worst Advice Ever: Be Authentic

authenticdefinitionIt is possible to wear out a good thing by overusing it. Tap someone once with a finger and you get their attention… do it repeatedly and you make a bruise. The same is true with using words until they become so stale that they induce nausea. Listen to the advice given to someone looking for a job in a tough market and you will undoubtedly hear the advice to be authentic. The problem with the well-wishers offering this sage advice is that nobody knows what that means anymore. Does it mean that people who are authentic liars should do the best job possible at lying? If pop labeling an action is important, then why not tell them to be organic? Or gluten free?

The best way to find out if something has been used up or reached maximum saturation is to look at motivational memes that use it out of context. There is authentic comedy in pictures of the word authentic offered to people who will make it a meaningless mantra to themselves and then share it as wisdom to others. I have a picture on my desk of a ship in a storm-tossed sea. It has meaning to me because I know who gave it to me, I know the circumstances of that gift, and it motivates me to make things happen. If I gave that to you, would you think I was suggesting that your life is a disaster and you are probably going to sink? Context is more important than slogans or mere words.

We live in an age where advertising slogans are created to induce people to buy things they don’t need for a price they can’t afford. We have lowered our defenses against the onslaught of meaningless propaganda to the point that we have trained ourselves to repeat it to others as if it were some kind of divine revelation. In doing so we have diluted the message and cast a borderline insult at the people we are trying to help. There is no point to advice that has a flimsy definition or cloudy understanding.

If somebody tells you to be authentic, engage your crap filters and go deeper into yourself. You don’t have to go back to some state of being that once existed. The original may be flawed or become broken in the process of living your life. The goal should be to become better than the original. There doesn’t seem to be a sliding scale of authenticity, but you are not a static being. You don’t have to be better than everyone else. You just have to be better than you are today. Only you can measure that.


Technology and Respect for Its Roots

One of my favorite pieces of art is Winston Link’s photograph “Old Maude bows to the Virginia Creeper” in which an old horse seems to be giving deference to the approach of new technology. Gene and Roy Hampton just happened to be at the crossing with a sledge of wood destined for their nearby farm when Link asked them to wait for a photo of them with the approaching train. Maude was described as being a gentle and patient old animal, but she grew restless and began bobbing her head as the noisy steam engine arrived. It was billowing thick black smoke because of the steep incline. Both the train and the rail line were known as the Virginia Creeper because of the slow speed going up and over the Blue Ridge Mountains in western Virginia. In a moment that could not have been staged, he captured this poignant picture of the old and the new occupying the same space and time.

Today we often seem to be divided into two camps – those who blindly steam forward with every new technological advance and those who helplessly cling to the old way of doing things. Neither of these points of view is wrong, but it is a shame that there has become such a lack of respect for the opposing perspective. Sometimes it is blamed on generational differences, but the more likely cause for this form of blindness is just plain old ego. We seem to be evolving into a culture that focuses on protection of self to the extent that it sometimes denies the right of others to a different viewpoint. There is a very close relationship between being self assured and being narrow minded. Perhaps it is partially due to the fact that is not possible to see a physical picture of the old and new together except in our minds.  

In a civilized world there will always be advances that will totally transform the way we do many important things in our life. To borrow from an old analogy and twist it a bit: we can enjoy sausage, but we may not want to see how it is made. The same is true to a certain extent for technology. Intelligence is born of knowledge that comes from curiosity demanding that we understand enough of where we have been to know where we are now… and to predict where we are going. Disrespecting either end of this journey is short sighted and contributes to the brain rot that keeps us entrenched in the stagnation that created this line of thought in the first place. It is ironic that professing to embrace the technology sausage without knowing what is in it or where it comes from can actually limit our technological growth. Transportation was improved by the steam engine, but it didn’t stop there. Digital application to processes will no doubt give way to something else not yet invented.

We could take a lesson in horse sense from Old Maude. Recognizing that change is inevitable, give the new ways a clear path to success. This is not so much an issue of getting out of the way of progress, but respecting the way that led us to where we are. Do you see it… the train is also screeching a blast of thanks to Old Maude for paving the way for the iron horse.

Image credit: Courtesy of the O. Winston Link Museum, Roanoke, VA. © Conway Link  

The Pervasive Post and Pray Pathology

ParadigmShiftThe corruption of our thinking began with learning things that we are unwilling to unlearn. Beginning with inventing the wheel and discovering fire, we eventually came to worship better technological advances. Often we found that automation alone was not the answer, but we failed to understand why.

Nobody who is a recruiter today would consider spending time by only placing ads in a newspaper and then watching the daily mail – or a fax machine – for paper copies of resumes. The savvy job seeker of yesteryear subscribed to multiple print publications, spread out those want ads on the kitchen table, circled the best ones with a yellow highlighter, stuffed envelopes with preprinted resumes along with a stock cover letter, and then kissed it goodbye by licking and sticking stamps. Archaic? Yes, but it did work. Jobs were filled and people were hired. Then along came that infamous automation and we became our own worst enemy.

We do have it much better today. Recruiters scoff at old school practices and pride themselves on being smarter than their predecessors because they have now learned to use technology to ply their trade. Young job seekers brag about growing up with computers and a whole generation of know-it-all, know nothings pollute the job search conversation. What’s wrong with this picture? We have changed the medium but not the underlying logic. We evolved past job board infatuation and on to posting jobs on social media, but for the most part we are still passively advertising and not engaging. As it became increasingly easy to apply for a job by clicking a hyperlink we have trained the new technorati generation to click without reading and then hoping to hit the job lottery. Back away for a minute. Looking down on this picture from space, nothing changed except for the speed and volume of posting and praying. We are unthinkingly doing the same thing we have always done; only now we can now make mistakes faster and more often.

If there is such a thing as evolution of thought, the new paradigm that discards everything we know and builds something unique is long overdue. Blow it all up and start over! There have been many missed opportunities. LinkedIn could have been the place where hirers and hirees could engage in a dialog for a better solution. Instead most recruiters saw it as just another job board and LinkedIn has complied by giving them just what they wanted… not what they needed. Ask a job seeker where they look for jobs and most often it sounds like using the internet to replace that kitchen table/highlighter drill. Nothing has changed. Nobody sees the similarities of today’s methodology to the old ways, but everybody complains about how broken the process has become. It was always broken!

There are signs that people are searching for that better way of doing it. Several companies are rolling out job-to-candidate matching services following the online dating model. So far most of them fall short because it is a software programmer’s concept using the less expensive word matching model rather than any hint of the more expensive true artificial intelligence. Since money rules all, we trade efficiency and time for glitzy dumb systems that repeat the past. They have automated the buzz word bingo and eliminated the human element. It is sold to companies wanting to save a buck and job seekers wanting magic. The biggest flaw is the same as the dating models; it doesn’t work unless people are talking to each other. Ironically, the same people who are complaining that computers are narrowing their chances of a job through an applicant tracking system are hoping that a computer will find that perfect match painlessly and without any effort on their part.

The Zappos story is another unique attempt at changing the paradigm. There are no job postings… period! Well how about that! One way to eliminate the recruiting black hole is to eliminate the one-way communications that it elicits. By promoting conversations between Zappos Ambassadors and Zappos Insiders a true dialog can be established with the end result of everybody being happy. How do job seekers get to be an Insider? By applying online. Oops! This is a major step toward fixing that broken system and it will be interesting to watch this culture evolve and mature. It will no doubt be improved with experience and is bound to be copied by many… rightly or wrongly.

The real answer to the problem is out there somewhere and one thing is clear: The best solution will always be one that does not disrespect the value of a person on either side of the interview table. It will not be solved by technology replacing humans, but by humans using technological tools to reach their goals more efficiently. The best solution will NOT be to repeat what we do today in a different format. We need to learn to unlearn things that we think we know.


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We Have To Talk… Before It’s Too Late!

Last year a BBC article told the story of Julia Rogers of Newton Abbot, Devon. After over-the-counter remedies for backache didn’t help alleviate her pain, she went to her doctor complaining that it seemed to be spreading into her abdomen. She was sent for blood tests and later for an ultrasound which showed “excessive bowel gas.” There were seventeen subsequent visits to doctors and on two visits to the emergency room she was sent home with painkillers. Nobody seemed to take her seriously, but she was referred to a gastroenterologist for another opinion. She decided not to wait several weeks for the appointment with another “expert” and scheduled a scan at a private hospital at her own expense. On June 11 she was told that she had inoperable advanced pancreatic cancer.

How often do we hear stories about solutions to serious problems that start with just treating the symptoms instead of searching for the root cause? We can joke about using a tourniquet around the neck to control nosebleed, but this also indicates another problem: Sometimes an improper cure can be worse than the problem it is intended to solve. It almost seems to be in the nature of being human to either overreact to a situation or ignore it and not react at all. Both extremes are deadly.

Words cannot adequately express feelings about the tragic events in Charleston, South Carolina last week, but we must talk about it. Failing to address serious issues in our lives, our work places, and our thoughts does nothing to work toward solving the root problems we face, so we must share our ideas and confront our fears rationally. We also need to look at the subconscious motivations that somehow surface when we talk without thinking about the totality of the event. Spreading half truths and offering pet biases as solutions is really just putting a band-aid on an open artery.

Not a day had gone by after the nine innocent people were killed during a Bible study at a church in Charleston when the “ultimate” solutions poured out of half-thinking pundits. For some, the Confederate Flag was to blame. If only that flag were banned from public places then events like this would not happen. The anti-gun lobby decreed that if guns were controlled then this would not have happened. Racists accused other types of racists for the deaths. One map posted by a liberal news outlet showed all the southern states highlighted in red as if they were the problem. While all of these and other theories should be included in the conversation, we should never think that any one of these pet grievances is a total solution to the root problem. Eliminating the symptoms of evil will not eradicate the evil.

In an article in Esquire Charleston Shooting: Speaking the Unspeakable, Thinking the Unthinkable, Charles P. Pierce points us in the direction of a solution by reminding us not to hide from such events. They must be part of the common dialog and we must think deeply about them and talk about them. Of course, no one is immune from injecting a bit of personal vitriol to a situation as he did by referring to South Carolina as “the home office of American sedition.” Really? How ironic that in an earlier interview about his book Idiot America – How Stupidity Became a Virtue in the Land of the Free he stated “… the zealot is very often the hardest person to argue with, because he doesn’t know what he doesn’t know, but he knows what he believes.” So by revealing his own moment of zealotry he masks one of the reasons why a band-aid approach won’t work.

If you believe that flags, guns, race, regional affiliation or something else impact the situation don’t stop talking about your beliefs. It is only by talking and debating issues that we can drill down to the root cause of our problems. If you blindly hold to the fact that your way is the only way, you may be part of the problem. There is a cancer in our world that needs to be diagnosed and excised. Violent actions by our fellow humans are the result of something evil. Charleston joins the long list of global atrocities that include Paris, France; Tyrifjorden, Norway; Kauhajoki, Finland; Erfurt, Germany; Veghel, Netherlands. Think bigger than yourself. Imagine a world without evil and make it happen.  

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